Source: Diversity Essay
I have been talking to some of my friends that work in the field of social media as well as blogging. In an open discussion today three girls said that they hated their jobs at this time. One complained that she is required to post on different social media sites every hour. This barely gives her time to breath between posting. Another said that her eyes are burning from staring at a screen since the time she wakes up. The last girl ranted about the amount of research she has to do. She spends endless hours reading news reports, blogs, and trending social media.
These are the things that we fail to consider when taking a career. Blogging is better for me personally because I am not required to post as often. The high pressure of time constraints may impact the quality of work. Are you a blogger or a social media publicist? Why?
- emotional creatures
- take forever to get dressed
- gossip about everything
- love to shop
Let’s go ahead and ignore all those (possibly true) stereotypes except the last one. I am not speaking for all women but, as a woman, I can admit that I love to shop. I think it is a habit I acquired as a teen. The mall was the social stomping grounds. Shopping just came with the weekend routine.
Then I grew up. I no longer have endless hours to spend at the mall searching for good deals and hot fashion trends. Even worse upon growing up my mom had the nerve to cut off my allowance. Then she actually kicked her sweet daughter out of her house just because she was “too old to live with mommy”. Can you believe that? I was working full-time at minimum wage struggling to make it. I was too broke to go shopping for toilet paper let alone any luxury.
As the years passed – I grew up more. I had three kids of my own. I went to college and got a better job. Although I was financial secure I was more than time deprived.
Do you know what it is like to buy gas with three kids? Imagine going to the mall. Just loading and unloading is exhausting.
Then a phenomenon hit the internet. Online shopping. This made it possible for me to have some of my favorite luxuries to be delivered at my doorstep. This is amazing! At first I was leery which is to be expected. there are rules to online shopping. Always use reputable companies. You can check customers reviews on the BBB website. Take what they have to say into consideration. I have also found that more well-known companies have a better reputation and delivery rate. I have found that companies like Wal-Mart and Target are more efficient with the correct packaging and delivering or the correct items . There are other small companies out of Asia that do not deliver as promised. he do not deliver the items you pay for and they do not deliver on time. I had bad experiences with nastydress.com and lilydress.com. Buyer beware.
I have had positive experiences with Craigslist and Amazon. I order all of my textbooks from an online store . I do hear ant complaint s about doing business on Craigslist and Ebay. If you are a member and you use a PayPal account are very well protected
My thoughts for the is that more women should shop online . Try it. This is like a dream come true for a busy mom.
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I am speechless. I have just figured out how to use Windows 8 and it is already being updated. Does anyone else feel like new media is growing faster than they are? If you are interested in the preview of the new Windows 10 check out this link!
There are so many small technologies that have more than one use. We have talked about the many uses of the cell phone including calling, texting, and surfing the internet. Today I want to look at another everyday product that has evolved. The coffee pot has transformed over the years. Now I use my coffee pot to make tea instead of coffee. This is my attempt to keep it simple. You may be interested in utilizing your equipment in this way because it is fast, efficient and it eliminates mess
The book says that “online virtual learning is very popular…” (p.62). Although virtual learning is done mostly by universities through chats and online lecture I believe online learning is not limited to what you are required to absorb for school. There are many things that people learn by watching television, reading, and interacting with some type of virtual learning. The teacher may be a random person on YouTube. I think if the student is retaining information they are part of online learning population. With this illustrated demonstration I will show you how with six simple steps. You will need a gallon jug, a cup of sugar, tea bags, and a standard coffee maker.
Courtesy of Huffington Post5 and Health.com
5 Signs You Should Take A Break From Social Media
By Samantha Gregor
In a tech-obsessed society where 500 million tweets are sent per day and 1.28 billion people use Facebook on a regular basis, how can you tell when your own love of “checking in” has gone too far? Alex Soojung-Kim Pang, Ph.D., technology expert and author of The Distraction Addiction, shares some of the most common signs that you should to sign off for a bit.
You make elaborate desserts and projects just to Instagram them.
Did you spend extra time making your salad look picture-perfect or recreate a DIY off Pinterest just to appear crafty? If you’re guilty of situations like these, you may be ready for a break. “When you start crafting your life to be more Twitter- or Instagram-friendly, it’s time to step back,” says Pang. “Thinking about where you’ll go or what you’ll do with an eye to how it will appear on social media undermines your ability to be yourself,” he adds.
You can’t rake the leaves or paint your nails without tweeting about it.
We all have that friend on social media who can’t help but share every single detail of her life. Unfortunately, you may also be that friend. “Composing tweets about what you’re doing as you’re doing it or feeling the need to report your thoughts in real-time are all signs that social media is taking over your life,” says Pang. “There are only 24 hours in a day, and the more time we spend sharing with our friends what we’re doing hour-by-hour, the less time we have to discover for ourselves why we enjoy these activities and what our days are adding up to mean,” he explains.
You know way too much about your connections.
“The big warning sign to look out for here is when you start becoming compulsive about knowing the statuses of your social media ‘friends,’” Pang says. So if you readily know that the random guy you once met at a party just bought a house, and you’ve already stalked his wife’s Facebook profile, you may want to reevaluate how much time you’re spending online. “The irony of social media is that while it can be great for keeping up with the details of our friend’s lives, too much engagement can obscure the big picture and weaken our ability to make sense of our own lives,” adds Pang.
You feel like you don’t measure up to your successful/happy/thriving friends.
Thumbing through your social feed can quickly lead to an inundation of good — and often envy-inducing — news. Witnessing your friends’ promotions, engagements, and extravagant vacations can stir up feelings of jealousy and inadequacy, whether you realize it or not. In fact, spending too much time on social media can cause feelings of negative body image among women, increase the amount of anxiety a person has on a daily basis, and even lead to damaged friendships and relationships. “When keeping up with your friends’ lives gets in the way of you happily leading your own life, you need a break,” says Pang.
You feel anxious when you don’t have access to your phone.
Do you check Facebook at traffic lights or while talking to your friends at the table? Do you refresh your Twitter feed as soon as you wake up or as you’re falling asleep? “The more you’re on social media, the less material you actually have to talk about that’s interesting and worth having other people hear,” says Pang. Think about it: How many conversations or real-life events have you missed out on because you were too wrapped up in your phone? The more time you spend liking, the less likable your own world ends up becoming, Pang explains.
How To Take A Step Back
Start by setting aside a specific time every day for catching up on social media. “Humans have a schedule for exercising, going to work, eating meals, and sleeping. So if one hour per day, at the same time each day, is good enough for dinner, it’s good enough for your news feed,” says Pang. When you do post status updates, limit yourself to only discussing life stories, instead of off-the-cuff thoughts or irrelevant snapshots of your food or your dog (no matter how cute he may be).
Finally, experiment with temporarily limiting your access. “Challenge yourself to abstaining from social media for a full week, or, if that’s too daunting, just delete Twitter, Instagram and Facebook from your phone for a week,” Pang suggests. “Does your life get better or worse? You may find that you feel perfectly satisfied without social media in your life,” says Pang.
Huffington Post updated 03/14 accessed 01/15
Tonight I was running through random thoughts as I picked up Legos. My phone was sitting on the counter playing music. It kept vibrating with notifications. I started to think about the times before mobile apps. I remember playing snake on my large Nokia phone years ago. I thought about all the mobile apps I use daily. I use a mobile app from the start of my day until the end I go to sleep. My day starts with a mobile app ringing the alarm at 6 a.m. As soon as I wake up I check my bank account. Throughout the day I check out different social media sites, Time Hop , Messenger, emails, play music and games all because of the easy accessibility of mobile apps. I think without this option I would not be so active on the internet, especially social media or gaming. want to make a poll to see how many mobile apps college students use daily and how many hours a day they use them. I am also curious about how many hours students spend on social media. Do the two have a connection? This may be a random blog with random thoughts but there are some relevant questions raised about mobile because of this slew of thoughts. If anyone has any input on this topic or would like to share personal experiences please leave comments.
When reading my classmates blogs I was reminded how new media can be used and, as one classmate said, abused. I think one of the biggest problem with new media is that we have made such a connection with new media and forms of communications that we waste majority of our days. Time management is something people struggle with. New media is only adding to this problem. Because of our connection with new media we are losing personal connections. When I say this I think of the family sitting at the breakfast table: mom and dad are both on laptops, the son is texting on his cell phone and the playing on her tablet. They can say they eat together but no one has any social interaction with each other.
I am having struggles with this is in my everyday life. My four-year old daughter got a tablet and a leap pad for Christmas. She likes to charge the tablet and play on the leap pad until the battery dies. Then she wants to switch. At this rate she could spend all waking hours glued to electronics. Although this makes my life much easier I feel like by allowing her to do that I am robbing her of something. She needs to interact with her sisters. Even though she is constantly playing learning games I have had to confiscate the games and push her outside to play in the sun. I tell her she needs the vitamins. At four years old she is already putting up a fight to leave her games behind. I can only imagine what the future holds.